My First Car: Titus

On April 7th, after much help and support from Steven, I brought home my first car.

Yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeesssssssssssssssssssss

After much consideration, Steven's name suggestion of Titus has been bestowed upon this new family member. He has been named after Titus Andromedon from The Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt.

Perfectly sums up my new car.

He is gorgeous. He is fun to drive. His sound system is AMAZING. And, most importantly, he is mine.

Not that I'm excited or anything.

He sparkles in the sunlight, so, naturally, it's been raining. I wanted to wait to show people til it was sunny and I could get better pictures, but I couldn't contain my excitement any longer.

And now we wait to see what my plates will be.

Wedding Party: The Obviously Official Officiant

Our officiant is clearly too tall to be a hobbit. She is a wizard.

After Steven and I got engaged we had some tough questions to answer. One of our toughest choices was who would marry us. I had originally planned a wedding based around riding on a boat so we could have a sea captain marry us since neither of us are religious. This plan was abandoned when we realized that A) it was too expensive and B) the sea captain was optional and an extra cost. So, who would marry us then? Well, our dear friend Brooke is an officiant. She married Bry and David. 

"In Sonny and in Cher" is the best thing ever said in a wedding ceremony.

I had already had my heart set on having Brooke as one of my bridesmaids, though, and two bridal roles was probably too much to ask. My mom is an officiant, but Steven and I agreed that we didn't want to test our theory that she wouldn't make it through the ceremony without crying. We decided that we should pick someone who wasn't already an officiant and ask them very nicely to become one just for us. This led us to picking a mutual friend. Steven met Suzie through me, but she is, in his words, his favorite friend of mine. So who is she? Well, my friendship with Suzie goes back a long ways.

An embarrassingly long ways... 

That picture was from 2010. Like with Brooke and Kat, I became friends with Suzie back when digital cameras were just becoming big and we didn't have one yet: 2006. Bry and I met Suzie when we joined the Marching Lumberjacks (hence the yellow uniforms). Suzie plays the flute so Bry was always next to her. I didn't play anything yet so I tagged along before learning the clarinet and took to hovering near Brooke. 

Also 2010. Can you tell how cool we are? We were given per diem money on a band trip and we
 mutually spent it on this picture to commemorate how awesome we are.

We had the pleasure of living near each other for a while and that was amazing. We had random movie nights and it was a great way to end college. By our last summer together, we were all just working and hanging out waiting for our next great adventure.

This is one of only two pictures of the three of us. 2013!

When Bry and I went off to China to teach English in 2013, Suzie went off to New Zealand for her own adventure. And when I came back from China she moved to Australia! While she was in Australia, I got to ask her to be our officiant via Facebook chat because I'm a chicken. Luckily, she said yes. 

The only other picture of us. 2015!

Suzie is going to marry us and luckily that calls for all kinds of new pictures to be taken. In under three months now (I'm not panicking) we get to stand up next to our friend Suzie and get married. I'm glad we'll have a familiar face smiling back at us while we make this giant commitment together. 

Wedding Party: Kat

This pretty lady!

Luckily for both Kat and I, we met in 6th grade. That means that it was 1999 and was long before digital cameras were popular. We have plenty of terrible pictures of ourselves on film but the oldest digital picture we have of ourselves is this:

This is the oldest picture of us I could find online. 2004! 15 years old.

We met at the end of her driveway after her and her sisters ran after their new puppy Cleo. (Cleo is still around and quite youthful for 16 years old.) I don't remember if we had a single class together when we hit middle school, but we remained friends throughout the years. In fact, we were a part of a larger group of friends that whittled down to just us three. 

2006... that's all I can say.

Kat WAS middle school and high school for me. The music I listened to was because she gave it to me. The movies we saw were almost exclusively at her house. We spent as many nights as we could at her house eating Wheat Thins and drinking soda and bouncing on her trampoline. I can't even imagine who I would be today if we hadn't met. She was the one who proposed the crazy ideas we inevitably went along with. No other human being meant as much to me as this one for many, many years. Kat was the triplet that Bry and I didn't know we were missing until she came along. 

We were each other's dates for prom. 2006!

Even after Bry and I moved and were forced to transfer schools between sophomore and junior year, we remained friends. It actually brought us closer together. We were forced to reach out and hang out on weekends and call each other daily after school. (Remember when that was a thing?) We spent practically the entire summer of 2004 together. Our paths finally split after high school.

Kat's wedding. 2009!

Bry and I went off to college in Humboldt and Kat started going to the J.C. in Santa Rosa. Bry and I even went to China and when we got back we got to be bridesmaids in our best friend's wedding! Kat had a daughter we got to be aunt's too from afar and eventually even Bry got married. 

In her natural habitat, you can always find a Kat between her twins. 2011!

We got to be bridesmaids for Bry as well. And then Kat had a son and suddenly she had all the children I needed to complete my wedding party! Just kidding. But really, I am very excited to finally get my turn at having her kids as flower girl and ring bearer. 

This bitch. The one on the left, not the two on the right. 2015!

Wedding Party: Bridesmaid Brooke

Making friends wherever she goes.

Brooke was, I believe, within the first three or four people Bry and I talked to at HSU. We ended up in the same FIG (Freshmen Interest Group) for lovers of languages and took English 100, Ethnic Studies, and the Marching Lumberjacks together in our first semester.

We go back a long ways. This picture is from a band trip in 2010.

(We have older pictures of us but it is just plain embarrassing to drag those up. I've since gained some knowledge of fashion and I'd prefer to keep our 2006-2010 pictures in the past.) Brooke was, believe it or not, the person that signed me up for Facebook. I resisted it initially, but clearly she has a vision of the future and could tell way back in 2006 that MySpace was on the way out.  

She even married my sister! (You know what I mean.)

Brooke was the one who corrected our grammar in our first weeks of college (having never encountered a Pennsylvania Dutch variant of English on the East coast.) and introduced us to Dungeons and Dragons. She gave us hand drawn graphic novels for our 18th birthday and more often than not if I have a happy memory from college it has Brooke in it. 

Somehow we made it out.

Shortly into 2013, Brooke told me that she was going to be moving back down to the Bay Area and I feared the worst. We'd never see each other again! We wouldn't be able to play D&D anymore! Would we still be friends??? (All the while, I was planning on moving to China for a year in just a matter of months.) I couldn't think of anything to say. How do you tell someone how much they mean to you and how badly you want to keep them in your life? I told her then and there that I wanted her to be one of my bridesmaids. (Yes, this was February 2013... and Steven proposed September 2014... what of it?) This was the only way for me to convey just how much I wanted her to stick around. 

Here we are two years later.

Brooke has been an amazing friend over the years, and I've enjoyed growing up a bit with her. I look forward to her being an aunt to my future kids, and a partner in old-age debauchery. 

These bitches mean a lot to me, and I'm glad they get to be a part of my wedding.

Wedding Party: Bridesmaid Alia

This bitch. The big one, not the little one.

You fight for years, never get along while you live at home, and then suddenly one day you're getting married and having sisters suddenly pays off! I never so much asked her to be my bridesmaid... just sent her a picture of my ring and said, "Hahaha, you have to be my bridesmaid!" Sisters.

Why is it that strangers can't tell we're five years apart?

Anywho, Lia has done her part to fill in some gaps since Bry, my MATRON of honor is in China. Lia helped me pick out a wedding dress, she went with us to pick up our wedding rings, had a make up trial with me, and she even came to my hair trial. We live many an hour apart so it is a royal pain in the ass to get together to do wedding things, so all of her efforts are appreciated.

We accidentally matched that day from our stripey blue shirts down to our black boots.

One day I'll get to be one of her bridesmaids or co-Matron of honor or some shit. And that'll be nice.

She was also the first to buy her bridesmaid dress, so she's pretty awesome.
(Yes, those are my glasses she's wearing.)